Thursday, December 16, 2010

Happiness is...



Family.
Playing with our kids.
Being a mom.

Love.














A warm home on a cold night.



Homemade pie for the holidays.



Pets.

Snow Angels. Snowflakes. Snow.


Squirrels.


Shoulder rides.
Having kiddos little enough to give shoulder rides.

Freedom.

Friends. Some come and go. Some are close for a time and then not. Some we may not even notice exist. And some are forever.

Sunsets.
So much fun to watch from a corn field the changing colors.

Somedays I need to be reminded of some of the things that make me happy. Life can be tough, faith is constantly tested, and it is hard to be strong. But all in all, there are some cool things to think of when life is at its toughest! Maybe I just need to take the time to think of a list of gratitude more often.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Jack of all trades, master of none...

I often get the feeling I am a "Jack of all trades". I dabble (or have in the past) in many different areas artistically (painting, sketching, some clay sculpture, pottery, jewelry making, weaving, photography, crafting also- especially crochet, cross stitching, sewing, stamping), professionally (teacher currently, have been a tech writer, corporate consultant, done sales, even a public speaker), and in my private life (wife, mom, homemaker but far from a domestic goddess). I have gobs of interests that are pretty odd (kids gear and information about various special needs in kids). Problem is that I have so many interests, such a patchwork of dabbling and in reality so little time, I find myself lagging in some of these areas more than others. Makes me wonder what I will finally choose to be when I grow up, especially when some of the things are less realistic the older I get. I feel at times a bit like alphabet soup...you never know what letters you'll get today and if they will make a word or not!

Below: Some of my dabbling...
Aprica stroller (Kid gear) with Veggie Tale Storage Sack (Sewing)

Peacefulness- The Calm Returns After the Storm (Photography)

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Operation Encouragement...

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11

When I wake up in the morning, it often seems to be on the wrong side of the bed. Usually it begins by upsetting my husband as I hit snooze for the umpteenth time. I finally roll out of bed to yell at the kids to get up for school. The arguing begins as we figure out clothes (I thought they said they had them out before bed), get breakfast (there is never anything everybody likes), brush teeth (but we all did it before bed), and get out the door (trust me kids, I'd rather be in bed asleep still too and no I didn't remember to make our lunches). Then we move on to the next phase of the day, the ride to school. It starts looking up when we wish Grandma a good morning and find out if she has run later than our craziness has. Arrival at school just seems to mean fighting siblings, a majorly stressed out mama, and a day ready to start sooner than we are! Often my coworkers are just as tired and downtrodden as they arrive. Not a very nice way to start the day. I mean it is not a start to the day that has been wrought with any encouragement!

So let's look more closely at this. Encourage (the root of encouragement) is defined by the Merriam-Webster dictionary as 1. to inspire with courage, spirit, or hope : to hearten encouraged to continue by her early success> b : to attempt to persuade : to urge encouraged him to go back to school>
2. to spur on : to stimulate encourages plant growth>
3. to give help or patronage to : to foster encourage conservation>

Encourage is an action verb. Encourager is a noun, the person who is doing the encouraging. Encouragement is the act itself of encouraging. We are called [in 1 Thessalonians 5:11] to encourage others, therefore to be an encourager completing acts of encouragement toward each other. So it specifies an action (encourage/build up) and it specifies a recipient. The recipient is "each other." This means your neighbor, your friend, your loved ones, your fellow Christians. It does not exclude, rather has open arms.

I realized though that often we encourage many. We reach out to other countries, we reach out to the lame and the lost, we reach out to so many in physical need. We forget about the spiritual needs we have. We burn out as we spread ourselves thinner and thinner winning souls for Him and in the midst we loose the souls we already have. We become burdened and heavy laden. We feel alone. We feel unappreciated. We feel unloved. We treat those closest to us in the least encouraging manner of all!

When I tried to think more about my morning I realized something important. At some point in the morning a change happens, a ray of sunshine [or Son-shine] shines through, the encouragement begins. This turn around often happens for me as the staff meet for devotions together- burying our hearts for a few moments in His Word, prayerfully turning all our troubles over to Him and hitting the restart button on our day. I have begun to feel a great desire to share that feeling of care through word and prayer with others. That is how during this past week Operation Encouragement began. It is the effort to reach out to those around me. It is the effort to feed the souls of those who also working to share the good news of Christ's gift of salvation!

I will update more about the efforts of Operation Encouragement in my life soon. In the meantime, how can you implement acts of encouragement in your own life?

Reflection:
What is your attitude?
How can you work to provide encouragement and to build each other up?

But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness. Hebrews 3:13

Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. Hebrews 10:25

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Family by choice...

I was talking to an old friend tonight. I am looking forward to seeing her and her extended family tomorrow to mourn her dad's death and celebrate his memory. It made me think of some of my favorite people who have impacted my life and who I look forward to seeing again in heaven. She and I were also realizing tonight that there are some things that people [in our families] just don't get. Often family can't see the forest through the trees. Because of their blindness, they let you down over and over and over. She and I were both amazed at how blood can mean so little and how our true family- those in our hearts- are the chosen family that have ended up in our lives through a variety of circumstances (birth and blood being one, marriage and friendship also being some of the routes) are the ones that buoy and encourage us through the most challenging times.

When we hung up the phone, something struck me that I will share with her tomorrow. How awesome is it that our Heavenly Father loves us! And that He chooses to allow us to be a part of His family. He doesn't force it. Yet He invites us in as His children by grace through faith. Our blood ties have nothing to do with it, however His blood was spilled for it. All as a gift- given freely without strings. He gives it to us because we are part of His chosen family- wanted, loved and redeemed!

For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not die but have eternal life. John 3:16

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Well, how'd I do?

I posted a list of summer time goals back in June. Well summer officially ended as autumn moved in this week. It has been over for me since August as I went back to my job of teaching in a small school. So here is my check in of how I did on my goals...

Read “The China Study”- Read it. It wasn't as life changing as I thought it would be though it was interesting. Dull read over all, but made me cut back a bit on meat.

Create a BUDGET!!!- Hubs and I are still working on this one. This is a team sport when you are married and the other player on the team and I work different shifts. We definitely opened discussions about finance that have brought us forward in the effort, but not there. I did however work with a mini budget as I was traveling with the kiddos. This at least got some of the extra spending reeled in.

Stick to said budget- Stuck to the mini budget. See above on the regular budget.

Stay “No-shampoo”- Okay, this sounds way gross to most people I know. I don't use regular shampoo. It has all kinds of cancer causing chemicals, it was not making my hair look good (it was all greasy) and I couldn't seem to find something that worked well. I tried a bunch of different things and finally was able to make my own special recipe of "No-shampoo" shampoo. Sounds crazy huh? But my hair looks good, is growing, and it is super easy on the wallet. Success!

Rest my voice- Miracles happen. As one of my friends said "I don't think you'll survive 4 hours, let alone 4 weeks!" After 10 weeks of vocal rest my nodules healed. I have been allowed to return to work. I am trying to find a speech language therapist who will work with adults to strengthen my voice. I can tell it isn't like it used to be yet, but it is so strong compared to June!!!

Write- Hey I can call this a success, I've been writing this blog!

Spend time daily praying- This I have done much better on. I worked to have personal devotion time, to have study with other Christians of the Word, and to pray, pray, pray. This fall has come and I am yet again blessed to enjoy devotions at work. It is sometimes hard for me to be faithful about praying. I struggle with prayers that are not answered. I struggle with listening (I like to talk, listening is hard). I just sometimes struggle. But God is good and He is faithful. I try to be as well.

Walk more- This was easy when we went to the little house. It is in a beautiful park on a hill, has paths, is in a town with sidewalks, and most of it is shaded (cooler!). Home is hot, on a short street, off a busy rural route. Not overly conducive for regular exercise. I did start parking much further away from anything- church, store, work, etc. My kids are often telling me I am torturing them by forcing the few extra steps, but it is helping me to meet my goal of more.

Occasionally ride a bike- I did. And I got both kids riding. My bike is broken though, so until it is fixed it really was [and will remain] occasional.

Visit at least 5 new spots with the kids- We did pretty well on this. Dorney, Areas of Philly, a new county park, Adventure Aquarium, and a couple museums.

Visit some favorite “standards” with the kiddos- Well we hit some old favorites, though not all the ones we wanted on this either. The little house, the pool, grandparents homes, and a couple museums.

Sew- Okay this one didn't happen.

Crochet- This one either.

Have BBQ- Well nothing at our house. We started planning and then lost trees. They are moved over to our side yard where they are drying out. Seems like each time we start moving ahead 2 steps we get knocked back 1. We did go to some, so that was a start.

Learn to use my camera well- This one is a work in progress. I took gobs of pictures! I love my new camera. I think it is one that I will always be in some stage of learning with though.


So there you have it, my goals. Met, yet to be met, works in progress, or knocked off the list! Here is to a job well done! (Photos- The inside of the National Building Museum in Washington, DC [below] and the exterior of Independence Hall in Philadelphia, PA [above right])

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Back to...

This is the season for "Back to School" in our house! Work started up officially this week. My classroom is looking good and falling into place. I am gaining excitement about the year as I gear up for an official start. Meanwhile my kids are also getting ready as school starts officially next week. Supplies are in bags under the dining room table, I still need to sort them by child a bit better. It is exciting to watch as they each progress in their academic endeavors but also in their spiritual and emotional endeavors as well. I know someday I may look back at this hectic season and think how I miss it or how I didn't take the time to completely enjoy it. Tonight however, exhaustion is keeping me from the enjoyment. I am off to bed!!!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Dynamite Daytrips...

This year we have taken some really dynamite daytrips. Some have been pricey, some have been economical. Some of our "old standards" didn't happen for various reasons. Here are our thoughts about a few:

Adventure Aquariums; Camden, NJ-
Daytrip attended by 2 adults (myself and my sister) and 4 children (Lovely Lady, Little Man, Daring Nephew, Adventurous Niece). Drive from Bucks Co., PA took us through sections of Philly that were unique. We saw lots of wall murals, a bunch of open fire hydrants, and lots of older model cars along the way. It was interesting to see how you could tell so clearly the changing of a city neighborhood. The GPS routed us, next time I think we will consult a map and follow it's guidance instead though. Once in Camden, we went straight to the Aquarium. Look up the per person cost prior to going- it sin't cheap and there really weren't any discounts available "at the door." The Aquarium itself was fantastic! It is set up to have some displays to observe unique fish (tropical fish, sharks, etc) and animals (hippos, turtles). It is very different from many other aquariums in the number of interactive exhibits. They had touch tanks of numerous shapes and sizes, allowing visitors to touch sharks, jelly fish, and rays. Little Man was especially excited by the Cow Nose Rays, and couldn't believe that he was allowed to reach in to their watery space and interact with them. Food choices were limited, we chose to hit a place on the way home to eat. There is a children's botanical garden next door, however we didn't get to check that out (too hot and too late). Overall, definitely a place I would go to again!

Dorney Park and Wildwater Kingdom; Allentown, PA-
We try to hit a theme park at least once during the summer. This year was Dorney Park. We were able to get tickets from Daring Nephew's Boy Scout Troop at a discount. There were 8 of us for the theme park- me, Hubby, 2 sisters were the adults; children-Lovely Lady, Little Man, Daring Nephew, Adventurous Niece. Drive was not bad, it is not far from Rt. 78. Paid parking was okay, we got there quite early though and had a handicapped person/permit. Entry was easy since we already had our ticket. Scooter Cart rental and handicapped rider pass was a bit of a pain: wait in one line, they send you to another line where you work on the handicapped pass, finally you get sent to another building area to rent your scooter. The park itself is quite large with something for everyone. All the kids found rides they liked, even my typically non-riding Lovely Lady! One hat was lost (caught air on a coaster, was in sight just not an area we could get it) and while we were promised it would be mailed, we have yet to have received it. Wild Water Kingdom was fun for the kiddos, they especially liked the wave pool. Unfortunately swim diapers were not mandatory and the big house sprinkler was shut down for poop. The water must have been filtered with the lazy river water also as that was shut at the same time. They reopened quickly, however our tummies were turned at the thought and we went back to the wave area. Life vests are available, but they don't push them. We had one not so strong swimming duckling that we forced it on for river rapid tube run! The Mama in me wishes they had forced it before I let that duckling down without the first time. The rides are all open after the Wild Water Kingdom closes, so we still had lots to do. I would say for our crew, they most difficult part of the day was due to terrain. It is quite hilly and not very shady making it rough for our scooter riding member and for the rest of us to walk! We liked it all the same, and will return another time.

National Building Museum; Washington, DC-
The National Building Museum was not a completely new stop for us. I had gone a few years back with the kids. It was not something they enjoyed at the time, meaning neither did I. We went this summer to specifically see the Lego exhibit. There is a cost for tickets to the exhibit; it is $5 per person ages 3 and up. Our group had 9, only one under 3. The ticket is for an hour window in the exhibit. We went from 11-noon. First you see replicas of some famous buildings- Sears Tower, WTC Tower 2, Dubai Tower, Fallingwater are just a few of the famous representations there. All out of Lego's! They had information about them also, like the design hours for the models and the hours put into the actual building with the Lego's. Then there was a Lego area for visitors to put their own best efforts to work. Finally you put your Lego buildings onto a city section for display. We wished we could bring them home instead! To escape the exhibit you were supposed to proceed through a Lego themed gift shop hosting Lego sets ($25 for some, Fallingwater was $100), Lego calculators (appr. $35) and more. They graciously let us escape with all 6 kids through the entrance instead! Oh and parking...Parking is difficult in that area of the city. We ended up at a quarter eating meter. Nickels got you 1.5 minutes, dimes- 3 minutes, quarters- 7 minutes. From the time we parked until we ran out of coins was about 2.75 hours or 165 minutes. You do the math!!!

Smithsonian Museum of American History; Washington, DC-
Parking was again a fiasco! We ended up parking near the Capital building at one end of the National Mall and walking to the museum at the other end. Ouch! The museum was a lot of fun though! We enjoyed exhibits about holidays (especially the replica of a Pikachu balloon from a Thanksgiving Day parade), TV stars (Kermit the Frog was there), First Ladies gowns, transportation and the inventions floor! The favorite had to be the escalator rides though for 2 of my young com padres! We went down, up, up, up, down, up, down, down, down! Guy waiting for his family at the time thought it was hysterical the first time we passed, was convinced we were running off sugar on the second. Cafe closed earlier than the museum, a disappointment for my weary, hungry travelers. We made due with our snacks from home, filled up on water at the fountain, and s-l-o-w-l-y trekked back to the car. The slow trek back was made most exciting by the blond squirrel along the National Mall, the counting of items of various colors (red, orange, purple), seeing an officer on a bike (Mom, he's Park Police!), and a short rest on a bench. We were relieved to be back to the car, even if the inside of it was 162 degrees!!! Okay, small exaggeration maybe but it was 99 outside so very hot! Again, hot day, fun outing, parking limited.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Summertime...


Lots of exciting stuff going on this summer!!!

Lovely Lady is growing up. She is writing neat stuff, lots of poetry which happens to be better than mine. I am biased however. Her vocabulary grows along with her writing; which is good when writing and bad when articulating dissent in the ranks of family life. She also has grown into a really great big sister, cheering on and supporting her little brother really well. She is the kind of sister I'd want. She is dramatic, creative, beautiful, smart, and sweet. I love seeing her writing in her journal each day, playing with the old dog, and scooting on the scooter all over!

Little Man is certainly growing up too. He is swimming like a fish, even jumping off the diving board at his grandparents pool. Last night he hit an amazing high. We took him and his bike to a parking lot across the street from the park. With Lovely Lady cheering madly, he was able to take off on 2 wheels. He rambled around that lot for about an hour, not stopping once! He continues to be a Pokemon master, though conversations about Bakugan have started to creep in. He also articulates things carefully, making clear in no uncertain terms how he feels about life.

Well, as for me, I guess I am growing up too. I am reading all kinds of interesting books (The China Study, An Elephant in the Playroom, The Explosive Child, Lost at School, Boys Adrift to name a few!) that are pretty heavy. I did also read a couple lighter ones along with lots of magazine articles. I also have also been working on other stuff, like yanking out my Dave Ramsey books and creating an updated budget for the family. I joined a pool and am dragging the kids there as often as I can which we love! I also have been doing a ton of driving between the two homes. I think I'll be as sad as the children to see summer end. I am each year it seems. The more time passes filled with unfulfilled dreams the more I treasure this time with the kids. It all seems to go too fast!!!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

The Mama Osprey


As I drove down Rt. 6, I couldn't believe how big the baby osprey had gotten. I finally could see it's head above the nest box edge. I made a u turn, pulled over across the street away from them and pulled out my camera. I don't know what caught her attention first- the crazy u turn or the sound of the window rolling down, but by the time the camera was out she had spotted me.


She started screaming at me! Her baby quickly hid. My babies started warning me from the backseat "You'd better not get out of the car, she looks like she's gonna get you!" She screamed loudly at me and watched me like a hawk (pun intended).


She made it very clear she wasn't about to let me get any good shots of the baby even when I left and came back further away in a different spot. I guess I can't blame her, I'd do the same for my kids. It was a beautiful sight and a fun experience as I learn how to work with my camera.


Don't forget to click on the pictures to see them larger. The one where she is staring at me is really cool when larger!

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Fadazzling Toenails... The art of the family pedicure

My guilty pleasure of me time is my bi-annual pedicure at the salon. It usually happens right before school starts and right when it ends. My little piece of heaven. However as my kids get older, they have begun to think of those pedicures as "we" time rather than my "me" time. Tonight I found a fun solution to that. I went to Walmart and got all kinds of pedicure stuff. Files, clippers, trimmers, push things, and a bunch of nail polish colors.

When we got home, I got out a plastic tub, filled it with warm, soapy water and stuck Little Man's feet right in. Then one at a time I took them out, dried them, trimmed, pushed, and filed them. Next was my Lovely Lady's turn. We stuck her feet in the tub with a new batch of warm, soapy water. Then one at a time I took them out, dried them, trimmed, pushed, and filed them. She had picked her colors, cherub and chartreuse shimmer otherwise known as pink and green. We did her big, middle and pinky toes green. Her remaining toes got the sheerest pink.

Then it was my turn. I stuck my big ole' boats in the tub, filled with a new batch of warm soapy water. Then one at a time, they were taken out for the drying, trimming, filing, and pushing. However, the excitement was increasing as I pondered over my color choice. They expressed their thoughts of combinations. Mostly however, they were articulating their desire to paint my nails for me. Little Man carefully did my big toes, with Lovely Lady filling any missed spots. Then Lovely Lady did my remaining four smaller nails on each foot. Now I had to choose my color. I decided on a beautifully aquamarine shimmer, BonBons #0113. Carefully I spread it over my nails. First coat dried, then second coat. While shimmery aquamarine toenails might be enough for most 30 something moms, my children continued to encourage me. We top coated with Cosmos, a clear coat filled with fine glitter in a silvertone and larger flakes of star shaped glitter in a complimentary blue green. Little Man looked carefully at each one, then at me and stated matter-of-factly "They are fadazzling Mommy! They are fantastic and dazzling all in one!"

So here I sit. Toe seperators carefully removed, shimmery aquamarine toenails, covered in sparkles and glitter. The children are now asleep, I am having my "me' time. I reflect back on my evening realizing that this pedicure filled with "we" time blew away any others I have ever had. In the words of Little Man, my evening was "fadazzling" it was "fantastic and dazzling all in one!"

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Superhero



I dreamt I was a super hero,
Able to preform amazing tasks,
I could even fly,
Then I woke in a crazy sweat,
There in bed I lie.

Superheros are surely not real,
they are nothing more,
Than dreams and aspirations,
Of helping more than you hurt,
Of providing some super-human inspirations.

So I get up and out of bed,
I dress myself in my mommy clothes,
Ready to start my day,
And realize right then I am a superhero,
To the kids who are joining me now to play.


Monday, July 26, 2010

Loving My Vitamix!!!

The Vitamix

I love my Vitamix, like seriously love the thing! It is the appliance that has changed my life, but I never knew I needed or wanted. I had a kitchen full of appliances. My blender which got used especially for pasta sauces, my Magic Bullet which was my main smoothie squeeze until I learned my smoothies weren’t so smooth and were getting s-l-o-w-e-r, my juicer which made awesome juice and left behind lots of healthy junk to clean up, and my food processor which to be honest never got used. As a family we were becoming more aware of what we were eating, and for our kids especially what they weren’t eating! What we were eating was way too much junk when we were running late, and not enough of the healthy stuff like fruits and veggies, especially for the kids.

One day we were on a family outing to our favorite store…Costco! Hubby needed a rest, daughter and son were on the lookout for samples, and I was actually food shopping. Hubby found a chair to sit in, which happened to be across from a Vitamix display. This made the kids happy because it meant samples. Win win situation! I quickly finished up grabbing my last items and joined them to watch the girl at the display. First she made Tortilla soup- a nice veggie soup with some beans and chips mixed in on the lowest setting right before serving. I couldn’t wait to try it! The kids weren’t so keen on trying it. The woman told them that if they tried it, she would make them a chocolate shake. They tried and loved the soup. Before she made the shake, she made some pink lemonade with grapes and lemon. That was awesome too! So now she starts the chocolate shake.

This chocolate shake was like nothing we had ever seen. She put in spinach, cabbage and carrots to her liquid parts. Then she added pineapple, banana, and strawberry. Last she added some Ovaltine for the chocolate. Wallah, a delicious chocolate banana split shake! She talked to the kids the whole time asking things like “Does your mom put spinach into your chocolate shakes?” The kids were just dumbfounded! It certainly wasn’t going to stop them from trying the shake though. They tried it, asked for seconds, then told Hubby and I that we really should get this. He and I decided it was worth a try. So we did.

When we got home, buyers’ remorse immediately set in. I wondered what I had done, how I could be so foolish, would I use this, I already have a blender-Magic Bullet-juicer-food processor!!! I put the box in the closet and turned on the computer. On the internet I have learned you can find out information about almost anything. Blenders are definitely included in that! I read blogs, magazine articles, reviews and anything else I could find about the Vitamix. I learned about their company (makes the product in the USA still), their warranty (7 years, wow!), and how it stacked against its competition (especially the Blendtec). I liked what I learned. So finally I opened the box, cleared a spot on my counter and started using my Vitamix. I haven’t looked back since!


Which model did you choose and why?
We have the 5200 model. We originally only purchased the blender with the wet container. We have since gotten the dry container as well. We purchased at a demonstration at Costco, so we did get to see it in action.

Is it louder than the average blender?
Yes and no. On lower speeds, no it is similar to a regular blender. On higher speeds, yes it is because it goes faster than a regular blender.

How hard is it to clean?
Super easy! We rinse after each use in the morning with hot water. We often make soup at dinner in it, so after that we rinse, use hot water and a few drops of dish soap, a bottle brush if something is stubborn, and then actually turn on the blender with the soapy water. Cleans up quickly and beautifully!

Keep it on the counter or store it away? I've heard it's rather large.
It is fairly large. I do keep it on my counter because I use it so much. I just put the canister next to the base. When I use it, I pull the base forward and put the canister on top. They do make a smaller canister which would be great if I were just making stuff for 2. Since I use it to make for 4, I like the large container.

It leaves no leftover bits in the smoothies, right? Would you say it's like Jamba Juice consistency, even with veggies added?
I haven’t had JambaJuice. It is the machine my local Starbucks uses as well as a local smoothie shop. It leaves no extra bits. The trick is making sure you have just enough liquid in first. More liquid makes for nectar like juices (even with carrots), liquid and ice makes for great smoothies, and for soups no ice is needed- just veggies with seasonings and liquid. Soup is left running for about 5 minutes and is hot when you pour it right out of the blender. On low speeds you can put in things like cabbage with water and it just chops like a food processor would

Vitamix recipe books or sites that you use?
I use their recipe book a lot. I will run online searches if I can’t find something specific. I also play with my own concoctions as well. I have learned to write them down though so I can recreate them.

Did you find that you make more with it because you love it so much?
Yes! I was hesitant at first. The more I tried things though, the more I used it. Now it is a daily use item, most used after the fridge, stove and dishwasher. I use it to make shakes and juice for breakfast, I typically use it for soup at lunch or dinner, and often to puree down stuff for the kids food. Often we have dessert from it too. Strawberry shakes (milk, yogurt if on hand, and frozen strawberries) are a favorite that I am comfortable feeding the kids daily! Because I use it so much it has actually lowered our food bills; we eat out much less and use more of what we buy in a variety of recipes. Looking back it took a couple months, but it actually paid for itself in savings within a couple months!

But why????

As a mom, I am beginning to understand my parents frustration with the word WHY. I try to do a better job of answer my children, even though I still chuckle at the why-because game I played with my mom and dad. So here it is...
Why?
Because I love you. And loving you means that I am supposed to raise you right. And raising you right means raising a decent human being who grows to be an adult able to take care of themselves, work as a responsible member of society, move out of my home and be an awesome adult! That is why!!!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Skunks...

Have you ever wondered about skunks??? They are really beautiful creatures- from a distance. Even if they don't spray at you, they stink. One keeps coming to the yard for grubs. You can smell them coming. The smell leaves with them. They really stink while they are here. I haven't gotten a picture yet, will keep trying. Just not from up close and personal!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Living in the moment...

Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds!
Luke 12:24


As I see it, there are two times one lives in the moment the majority of the time- babyhood and elder care.

The first- the blissful, sleepless days of being new parents. I mean face it those are the days we are so sleepless it is a stretch not to live in the moment! We live, eat and breathe our babies and new family dynamics. We sleep with a little one on our chest, we have the bouncy seat in the bathroom for the crying baby while we shower, and we try to remember to feed ourselves in between feeding the sweet- always hungry- little baby. We also savor the moments that come along... first baths, smiles and giggles, rolling over, sitting up, crawling, walking. Many of us even savor the harder parts... the colic, first colds, teething, changing diapers, separation anxiety. Somehow as they become more independent, develop along their own personal curves, we move out of the moment.

The second time of in the moment living comes when suddenly something happens and you are dealing with elder care. A parent or grandparent is no longer able to care for a spouse or sometimes even themselves. Again you are in the moment. Is today a good day? You enjoy it with everything in you! Is it a bad one? You agonize through it, knowing that you are here, now, in the moment. You visit, you email out updates, you talk to the nurses, you play the game as you are part of a skit without a script, you wonder how much more you can handle.

GG in the courtyard

And then there is the time in between. It is hard to live in the moment when you are dealing with schedules, usually color coded by family member, school projects, sports, clubs, after school activities, play dates, sleepovers, juggling daycare, worrying about the next meal (not the one you are eating), bills, car troubles, school payments, yard work... The list can go on and on and never seems to decrease! Often life may seem to be the roadway that your wheels are just spinning upon, an out of control vehicle spinning upon black ice. Meanwhile we spend so much time worrying, we forget the beautiful glories that have been given to us. We wait for the kids to be older, we wish they were still younger. The car of life seems to jolt unhappily as we speed up and slow down readhing and running for things not in our grasp. The medium is truly not a happy one for most as we seem to dread the school years, the tweens, the teens, dating years, college times...

While my life is one of chaos and rushing during the school year, I work on slowing down to be in the moment during the summer. The children and I take our time at many things. We go on outings, often reveling in the changes to us since the last time we visited said location. We visit friends and families and savor those times, as those memories need to last a day, a week and sometimes a lifetime. This week we worked on savoring time with my grandparents; still each others love of a lifetime, separated by differing care needs! We also saw my childhood BFF and her folks also separated by differing care needs. The funny part of those visits is how they make time stand still. My BFF and I click right back together, even though we are now married mothers with growing children. I am still the granddaughter coming to visit, even though now I am the one driving my children there.

Cousins enjoying a chat

While my days dealing with babies seem to be too long gone, and my days of helping to care for my elders seem to be steadily approaching I shall remember that I am in today for a reason! I can work on finding a happy medium!

Home, Sometimes Sweet Home




Coming home yesterday was a big shock after this past weeks storms. Many people lost trees, power was knocked out, and two homes burned after being struck by lightening. Our view of the house from the street was completely blocked by fallen trees. It looks like 3 will need to be removed, an undertaking bigger than we can do on our own. Our house was not hit, which is an amazing feat when you live amongst large trees!!!




Today I went outside to walk the dog and take a closer look at things. A couple pieces of siding need to be fixed it seems. Our roof held strong and solid; a blessing we couldn't have counted on before replacing the old one. The bluebirds nest in the eaves must be untouched still as she chattered me away from it when I was on the porch.

We found some strange things also. There is a dark little moth clinging to the front window. When I looked above the window there is a gray bug that somehow resembles a dragon. And the little peeps I thought were birds, my daughter pointed out wisely are actually little bats. It is neat to see nature surrounding us.

Below you see the brown moth, the dragon-like creature and some kind of walking ant. The picture of the bats is difficult to see so I will work on editing it a bit before posting it.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Endings and beginnings...

Good things must end so new things can have a chance to start. It happens with hours, days and nights, months, seasons and so many concepts of time. It happens in relationships sometimes in the form of ending, other times in the reality of change and growth. Some of these things we enjoy watching like flowers blooming in spring and leaves changing colors in fall. Other times we dread it.

Teaching is a profession where we get to witness constant change. Children come in to you at one stage and leave in a different one. One of the things that marks profoundly the end of your time with that class is the cleaning of your room, finishing report cards, making your honors list, and sending final papers home. Today I finished all that for my group.

It is a day that brings some sadness. I had this group for the last two years in some capacity, either as their primary teacher or a significant member of their team. Earlier this year as I was enjoying my small class, the other teacher chose to leave her position. This brought some significant change as my class grew from 13 to 27 students. It was an experience I couldn't seem to help but fear.

The amazing part was finding God within it all! I was blessed to see my heart grow as it filled with a teacher's love for each individual, my ability as a teacher stretch and grow as I planned and carried out activities, and my faith continue to expand as the Lord blessed every moment with the children. I realized part way in that God had given me a gift through that human-made situation... every morning I faced my students with the excitement of facing a wrapped present waiting to be opened, every evening I looked back with the joy and satisfaction of having truly enjoyed the gift itself! Having this come to an end has brought me such mixed feelings.

But their are always the beginnings that follow the endings. I was able to think of the fun we had doing many projects and look forward to implementing them again. Other activities will be shelved, probably not to be repeated soon. Some newly promoted students made sure to wave from daycare, and a new to the school student stopped by for a visit. The excitement and anticipation will be building as I take the time to enjoy the summer!

And for each of my littles, I hope you remember...Jesus loves you and so do I!

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Vocal rest and customer satisfaction...

Vocal rest is one of my goals for the summer. For those who know me, there is a certain realization that I like to talk. And talk. And talk. Being diagnosed with "teacher's nodules" was a surprise, and requires vocal rest to heal. So this has been pretty hard!

This week has gone so much better overall. Until today. Sears Service did not show up...again. And I had to spend over 2 hours on the phone...again. With no satisfactory result...again. Rather than continue especially since my throat is now INCREDIBLY sore, I wrote a letter to the president of the company and am cc'ing it to each of the members of the board of directors. Guessing it'll be ignored, but wanted them to know that they have missed the mark on customer satisfaction.

So tomorrow I will get back to my vocal rest while I take a ride down to the post office to mail my letters out.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Summer Time To-Do List...

Read “The China Study”

Create a BUDGET!!!

Stick to said budget

Stay “No-shampoo”

Rest my voice

Write

Spend time daily praying

Walk more

Occasionally ride a bike

Visit at least 5 new spots with the kids

Visit some favorite “standards” with the kiddos

Sew

Crochet

Have a BBQ

Learn to use my camera well